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Fejz\u00eb DEMIRI<\/strong>
\n(Shkrime eseistike<\/em><\/strong>)<\/p>\n

Kujtimet <\/strong><\/p>\n

Sado q\u00eb kalojn\u00eb vite jete, ka disa momente kujtimesh q\u00eb p\u00ebr ne jan\u00eb t\u00eb pashlyeshme dhe din\u00eb t\u00eb na shfaqen n\u00eb \u00e7aste dhe situata t\u00eb caktuara. Jan\u00eb ato momente q\u00eb ne i kemi kaluar me njer\u00ebz q\u00eb n\u00eb zemrat dhe mendjet tona, edhe sot e k\u00ebsaj dite, z\u00ebn\u00eb nj\u00eb vend t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm. \u00c7do njeri ka k\u00ebso kujtimesh. Jan\u00eb kujtime q\u00eb shpesh njeriun e thellojn\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb bot\u00eb t\u00eb pakufishme t\u00eb mendimit. Ne, njer\u00ebzve, gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs ton\u00eb na shfaqen k\u00ebso lloj kujtimesh, t\u00eb cilat shpesh din\u00eb t\u00eb na mall\u00ebngjejn\u00eb, d\u00ebfrejn\u00eb e her\u00eb-her\u00eb na krijojn\u00eb nostalgji, emocion dhe lot malli. Ndoshta njeriut i b\u00ebjn\u00eb mir\u00eb shfaqja e momenteve dhe kujtimeve, q\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, kan\u00eb zgjuar interes dhe k\u00ebrsh\u00ebri t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb, ngase e kthejn\u00eb n\u00eb vitet m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtura t\u00eb jet\u00ebs, kur bot\u00ebn e kuptojn\u00eb ndryshe, nga \u00e7\u2019\u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb von\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Si f\u00ebmij\u00eb, i njom\u00eb q\u00eb ke qen\u00eb, dit\u00ebt m\u00eb t\u00eb mira i ke kaluar duke lozur me shok\u00ebt dhe shoqet e shkoll\u00ebs. T\u00eb ka interesuar loja, g\u00ebzimi dhe hareja, ngase nuk i ke pasur n\u00eb kok\u00eb problemet q\u00eb i ka familja, rrethi, dhe fare nuk ke menduar p\u00ebr problemet q\u00eb m\u00eb pas di t\u2019i sjell\u00eb jeta. Ke lindur i padjall\u00ebzuar, dhe si f\u00ebmij\u00eb nuk i ke kuptuar gj\u00ebrat me t\u00eb shtruar, qysh nga fillimi. Sa keq q\u00eb njeriu nuk mund ta kthej\u00eb koh\u00ebn pas, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 me gjurm\u00ebn e kujtimeve. Po t\u00eb kishte qen\u00eb e mundur, shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra do t\u00eb kishin nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsime, dhe shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra do t\u2019i ndryshonim apo edhe t\u2019i nxjerrim nga ekzistenca si t\u00eb paqena. Kjo gj\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e pamundur, sepse jeta nuk na e ka dh\u00ebn\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mund\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n

Ne kalojm\u00eb vite jete, ka vite e kujtime q\u00eb ndoshta edhe mund t\u2019i harroj\u00eb koha, mir\u00ebpo mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb \u00e7aste p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilat ia vlen jeta. E pra, at\u00ebher\u00eb kujtimet e ve\u00e7anta jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb pavar\u00ebsisht mosh\u00ebs q\u00eb kemi, kujtohen t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta n\u00eb mbamendjen e vet\u00ebdijes son\u00eb. Ato l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb dhe mbresa t\u00eb paharrueshme, t\u00eb cilat edhe pse me bagazhin e madh t\u00eb viteve jan\u00eb epitaf i pashlyesh\u00ebm p\u00ebr \u00e7do njeri.<\/p>\n

Zjarr zemre<\/strong><\/p>\n

Je e vetmja ajo qyshse t\u00eb kam par\u00eb… bota dhe jeta p\u00ebr mua kan\u00eb pas tjet\u00ebr ngjyr\u00eb. Ti je vet\u00eb jeta dhe frym\u00ebzimi p\u00ebr mua. M\u00eb beso, nj\u00eb \u00e7ast kur ti nuk je e pranishme, jam tejet i zbraz\u00ebt dhe i thyer shpirt\u00ebrisht. Njohja me ty, jet\u00ebs sime ia ka shtuar buz\u00ebqeshjen, lumturin\u00eb dhe vullnetin p\u00ebr jet\u00eb. \u00c7do njeri ka lindur p\u00ebr t\u2019i dhuruar dashuri dikujt. Ama, un\u00eb ty t\u00eb dua m\u00eb shum\u00eb se dashuria. T\u00eb p\u00eblqej m\u00eb shum\u00eb se p\u00eblqimi. Puthja \u00ebsht\u00eb ve\u00e7se nj\u00eb apostrof ndaj ndjenjave q\u00eb un\u00eb kam p\u00ebr ty. T\u00eb ndjej bre, n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast.<\/p>\n

Jan\u00eb ndjenja \u00e7mendurie, q\u00eb fjala se p\u00ebrshkruan dhe mendja nuk di si ta shpjegoj\u00eb. Eleganca, men\u00e7uria, but\u00ebsia n\u00eb trup, t\u00eb folur dhe shpirt t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Ti m\u00eb je m\u00eb e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb se ve\u00e7antia, mendimbukura, q\u00eb pa ty ndjej mall, nostalgjie e zjarr zemre. Ta kam \u201czili\u201d buz\u00ebqeshjen, ama buz\u00ebqeshja jote dyfishon buz\u00ebqeshjen time. Lumturia jote mua m\u00eb motivon. Ti je ajo femra e zjarr\u00ebp\u00eblqimit q\u00eb i jep koloritin jet\u00ebs sime dhe kur t\u00eb shoh ia ndryshon. M\u00eb beso edhe n\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ndjehem i lumtur kur ty t\u00eb shoh, kur ti nuk je af\u00ebr un\u00eb bardh\u00eb e zi shoh.<\/p>\n

Shpirti ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs, shpirti \u00ebsht\u00eb i zbraz\u00ebt pa ty. Shpirti \u00ebsht\u00eb i etur sikur njeriu kur ka nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb pij\u00eb uj\u00eb. A mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb nj\u00eb peshk pa uj\u00eb? A mund t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb njeriu pa oksigjen? Oksigjeni i jet\u00ebs sime je dhe mbetesh vet\u00ebm ti. Dashuria ndaj teje \u00ebsht\u00eb sikurse zjarri edhe kur shuhet ai zjarr, hiri mbetet. Ose sikur ajo era e nxeht\u00eb, koh\u00ebshkurt\u00ebr, q\u00eb shkrin ortiqe t\u00eb m\u00ebdha d\u00ebbore. Bota sillet rreth universit e s\u2019ka se si ndryshe, edhe ndjenjat e mia t\u00eb dashuris\u00eb sillen rreth teje.<\/p>\n

Fisnik\u00ebri apo dob\u00ebsi…<\/strong><\/p>\n

Secili njeri q\u00eb dhuron dashuri, nj\u00ebsoj pret edhe t\u00eb marr\u00eb at\u00eb nga dikush. \u00cbsht\u00eb sikurse dikujt q\u00eb i gjen para hua, q\u00eb pret koh\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2019ia marr\u00ebsh. Mir\u00ebpo n\u00eb dit\u00ebt e sotme sa e \u00ebmb\u00ebl aq edhe e hidhur qenka dashuria. Ka njer\u00ebz q\u00eb japin pa rezerv\u00eb dashuri, ama nj\u00ebsoj nuk e marrin at\u00eb dashuri, madje as nga ata q\u00eb v\u00ebrtet i dashurojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Dashuria, thuhet se, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb fisnike, at\u00ebher\u00eb e p\u00ebrse p\u00ebr dik\u00eb t\u00eb dashurosh qenka dob\u00ebsi?! T\u00eb dashurosh dik\u00eb aq zjarrt\u00eb, e nxeht\u00ebsisht do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta harrosh veten, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jetosh dynjer\u00ebzisht. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i lumtur nga lumturia e tjetrit, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh, ve\u00e7se tjetri buz\u00ebqesh. Do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast e frym\u00ebmarrje at\u00eb q\u00eb e dashuron, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb thellohesh i t\u00ebri tek personi q\u00eb e ndjen. \u00cbsht\u00eb ndjesi thuajse \u00e7mendurie, q\u00eb fjala nuk gjen shpjegim dhe mendja s\u2019di ta shpjegoj\u00eb. Kur s\u2019e ke pran\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e do zemra dhe shpirti ndihen t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht t\u00eb zbraz\u00ebt, shpirti ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dashurin\u00eb e zemr\u00ebs. Pa t\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i etur sikurse njeriu q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon \u201c t\u00eb pij\u00eb uj\u00eb\u201d! Kur njeriu e ka pran\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e dashuron bota dhe jeta p\u00ebr t\u00eb kan\u00eb tjet\u00ebr kuptim. T\u00eb jetosh me dik\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb dyfishosh lumturi, t\u2019ia shfaq\u00ebsh lumturin\u00eb t\u00ebnde atij dhe anasjelltas.<\/p>\n

\u201cBota \u00ebsht\u00eb e madhe, ama \u00ebsht\u00eb e vog\u00ebl p\u00ebr ata q\u00eb dashurojn\u00eb\u201d! Kur dashuron t\u00eb duket sikur ta kesh bot\u00ebn n\u00eb duart e tua. Ani pse, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb do t\u00eb vdes\u00ebsh, ti mbetesh i pavdeksh\u00ebm kur dhuron dashuri… Nj\u00eb lule nuk mund t\u00eb rritet kur nuk e ujit, i bien gjethet dhe vyshket, ashtu \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe njeriu i that\u00eb dhe i zbraz\u00ebt kur nuk ka dashuri. Pa dashuri je sikurse ushqimi q\u00eb edhe pas ngr\u00ebnies nuk ndien shije… Mbaj mend, \u00ebmb\u00eblsia m\u00eb e madhe n\u00eb jet\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb dashuria. Ajo i jep frym\u00ebzim jet\u00ebs, ngjyr\u00eb, pesh\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi. Dashuria ia shton vullnetin jet\u00ebs, pa t\u00eb, beso, jeta \u00ebsht\u00eb e zbraz\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Let\u00ebrnjoftimi i f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur erdh\u00ebm, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb, menduam se t\u00eb gjitha t\u00eb mirat do t\u00eb na i sjell\u00eb jeta. Menduam se t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat do t\u2019i kemi t\u00eb gatshme, madje ndoshta edhe pa mund fare. Si f\u00ebmij\u00eb, t\u00eb njom\u00eb e t\u00eb padjall\u00ebzuar q\u00eb ishim, mendonim se asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kemi probleme dhe nuk do t\u00eb shihnim t\u00eb k\u00ebqija. Me koh\u00eb dhe mosh\u00eb filluam ta shikonim bot\u00ebn nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebnd tjet\u00ebr. Me koh\u00eb dhe mosh\u00eb t\u00eb pjekuris\u00eb njeriu kuptuaka gj\u00ebrat ndryshe dhe m\u00eb shtruar. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosh\u00eb, kuptuam se \u00e7do gj\u00eb sado e vog\u00ebl t\u00eb ishte, dashka pun\u00eb, mund e sakrific\u00eb. Duke u kaluar vite t\u00eb t\u00ebra, p\u00ebrvoje dhe rrug\u00ebtimi t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, kuptuam se mosha m\u00eb e mir\u00eb e jet\u00ebs \u00ebsht\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebria. N\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri jan\u00eb \u00e7astet q\u00eb z\u00ebn\u00eb vendin m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm n\u00eb mendjen dhe kujtimet tona. Sado q\u00eb njeriu ka kujtime dhe p\u00ebrjetime me bagazhin e madh t\u00eb viteve, kujtimet f\u00ebmij\u00ebrore jan\u00eb ato q\u00eb na shfaqen p\u00ebrher\u00eb n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb. Ato p\u00ebr individin zgjojn\u00eb emocion, k\u00ebrsh\u00ebri, nostalgji e cila her\u00eb-her\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb na sjell\u00eb deri n\u00eb lot malli.<\/p>\n

T\u00eb dashurosh dik\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka e zjarrt\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb ndjesi thuajse \u00e7mendurie q\u00eb shpesh t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb harrosh edhe vetveten. T\u00eb jetosh dynjer\u00ebzisht do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb jesh i lumtur nga lumturia e tjetrit, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb buz\u00ebqesh\u00ebsh nga buz\u00ebqeshja e tjetrit, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb ta ndjesh n\u00eb \u00e7do \u00e7ast e frym\u00ebmarrje at\u00eb q\u00eb e dashuron. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast \u00ebsht\u00eb femra. Femra \u00ebsht\u00eb pesha e familjes. Nj\u00eb familje q\u00eb nuk ka s\u00eb paku nj\u00eb fem\u00ebr brenda , \u00ebsht\u00eb sht\u00ebpi e shkret\u00eb, e mbyll\u00ebt dhe me ferra. Femra p\u00ebrb\u00ebn gjysm\u00ebn e shoq\u00ebris\u00eb, e cila e edukon gjysm\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr. Padyshim ajo q\u00eb meriton respektin e tretmanin m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00eb. \u00c7do person n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb jet\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr dik\u00eb q\u00eb i q\u00ebndron pran\u00eb, ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person q\u00eb i dhuron dashuri. T\u00eb jetosh me dik\u00eb, q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb lumtur, do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u2019ia shfaq\u00ebsh lumturin\u00eb t\u00ebnde dhe anasjelltas. Femra, q\u00eb e imagjinoj apo q\u00eb d\u00ebshiroj ta kem duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb modeste, e thjesht\u00eb dhe vet\u00ebmohuese. Edhe pse e thjesht\u00eb me karakterin e saj, ekstravaganc\u00ebn ajo e ka n\u00eb t\u00eb folur, mendje e shpirt.<\/p>\n

Ajo di t\u00eb jet\u00eb e durueshme dhe e sjellshme, aspak paragjykuese p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Mendimbukura nuk ka nevoj\u00eb edhe aq p\u00ebr zbukurime a makiazhe t\u00eb tepruara. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e bukur, e \u00ebmb\u00ebl, sepse fjal\u00ebt dhe buz\u00ebqeshja e saj \u00ebmb\u00eblsojn\u00eb dhe jan\u00eb fanar drite, si llamb\u00eb ndri\u00e7uese q\u00eb drit\u00ebson edhe zymt\u00ebsin\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb err\u00ebt. Paksa e llastuar, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse sepse shpirtmir\u00ebsia, shpirtdrit\u00ebsia e buz\u00ebqeshja e saj vezullojn\u00eb yjet n\u00eb qiell, q\u00eb i gjith\u00eb universi t\u2019ia ket\u00eb lakmi. Ajo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb egoiste, e qortueshme, e hapur n\u00eb bised\u00eb, si empatike e af\u00ebrt dhe ngaz\u00ebllyese.<\/p>\n

Ajo asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk bie pre e grindjeve, thashethemeve, ofendimeve t\u00eb kota, nuk tallet me ask\u00eb, edhe kur t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ndoshta mundohen t\u2019i mveshin gj\u00ebra t\u00eb pav\u00ebrteta dhe ta kritikojn\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb tejet e matur n\u00eb veprimet e sjelljet e saj. Ajo ka q\u00ebllime dhe ide t\u00eb men\u00e7ura, e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme. Tek ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb ambienti familjar t\u00eb ket\u00eb frym\u00ebn e ngroht\u00ebsis\u00eb, harmonis\u00eb, lumturis\u00eb e dashuris\u00eb. Assesi t\u00eb lavd\u00ebrohet tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebkritikuese, mendimbukura e zjarrp\u00eblqimit \u00ebsht\u00eb simpatike. At\u00eb e b\u00ebn t\u00eb duket bukur pamja e jashtme. Ama eleganca e saj mbetet n\u00eb shpirt.<\/p>\n

Ajo nuk i n\u00ebnvler\u00ebson a p\u00ebrbuz femrat e tjera, kur ato e kan\u00eb si shembull, apo edhe \u00ebnd\u00ebrrojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb si ajo. N\u00eb \u00e7do rast tregon mir\u00ebsjellje e vet\u00ebmohim ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, ajo \u00ebnd\u00ebrron gj\u00ebra t\u00eb bukura dhe t\u00eb rehatshme, madje edhe kursen para p\u00ebr t\u2019i bler\u00eb ato, ani pse un\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb kurseja asgj\u00eb ndaj saj, sepse \u00ebsht\u00eb po ajo q\u00eb i jep ngjyr\u00eb jet\u00ebs sime, ia shton vullnetin. Dhe, pa t\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra nuk do t\u00eb kishin as shije. At\u00eb e karakterizon edhe higjiena e kujdesi. Ajo d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb jetoj\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb ambient t\u00eb past\u00ebr, merakoset dhe tregon dhembshuri p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb vogla. Shpesh shfaq xhelozi pozitive, b\u00ebn q\u00eb dashuria t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e madhe dhe pa rezerv\u00eb. Mendjempreht\u00ebsia e saj b\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2019ia dij\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb gj\u00ebrave me vler\u00eb dhe atyre q\u00eb gjendet af\u00ebr apo larg nesh.<\/p>\n

M\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnie apo m\u00ebsimnx\u00ebnie efektive<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u00eb qenit m\u00ebsues efektiv do t\u00eb thot\u00eb shum\u00eb. Me vet\u00eb faktin q\u00eb dinamika e jet\u00ebs \u00e7do dit\u00eb e tutje, po na b\u00ebn vetjak, dembel dhe t\u00eb pap\u00ebrkushtuar sa duhet n\u00eb pun\u00ebn apo profesionin q\u00eb ne e b\u00ebjm\u00eb. Niveli i arsimit dekadave t\u00eb fundit po bie duksh\u00ebm. Shkaqet e k\u00ebsaj r\u00ebnie jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, mir\u00ebpo nj\u00ebra nd\u00ebr to \u00ebsht\u00eb trendi i zhvillimit t\u00eb hovsh\u00ebm t\u00eb teknologjis\u00eb e teknikave n\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsi, q\u00eb po na \u201cservon\u201d gj\u00ebrat e gatshme, saq\u00eb neve nuk na duhet mund i madh, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos th\u00ebn\u00eb fare p\u00ebr t\u2019i arritur. Duke par\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mosinteresim, mosvullnet, mosp\u00ebrkushtim t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve edhe nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve sot nuk e ka par\u00eb t\u00eb udh\u00ebs t\u00eb zgjojn\u00eb kurajo edhe aq tek nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit. Teknikat dhe m\u00ebnyrat e shtjellimit t\u00eb l\u00ebnd\u00ebs qen\u00eb shum\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsore, jot\u00ebrheq\u00ebse, joatraktive, jokuptimplota, madje her\u00eb-her\u00eb krijohet atmosfer\u00eb zymt\u00ebsie, monotonie e demotivuese p\u00ebr nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit.<\/p>\n

Mir\u00ebpo n\u00ebse m\u00ebsuesi \u00ebsht\u00eb i p\u00ebrkushtuar dhe efektiv \u00ebsht\u00eb i kuptuesh\u00ebm, i qart\u00eb, kritik dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha vet\u00ebkritik. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb porta q\u00eb n\u00eb rast suksesi \u00ebsht\u00eb e hapur, e n\u00eb t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn mbyllet. \u00c7do shembull i mir\u00eb i tij, \u00e7do teknik\u00eb e avancuar dhe t\u00ebrheq\u00ebse lart\u00ebson dhe favorizon suksesin e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve. \u00c7do mang\u00ebsi apo mosp\u00ebrkushtim sa duhet i m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit ndikon negativisht, \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebm dhe cenon suksesin e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve. M\u00ebsuesi efektiv \u00ebsht\u00eb krijues. Ai \u00e7do her\u00eb dhuron di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb komunikues, dep\u00ebrtues, gjall\u00ebrues dhe me plot hare n\u00eb komunikim. Ai nuk punon vet\u00ebm me nj\u00eb person, p\u00ebr t\u00eb nuk ka edhe aq r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi numri. E qen\u00ebsishme, sipas tij, \u00ebsht\u00eb cil\u00ebsia dhe detyrimisht t\u00eb shp\u00ebrblehet dija. M\u00ebsuesi efektiv asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nuk di ta b\u00ebj\u00eb, or\u00ebn t\u00eb lodhshme dhe t\u00eb m\u00ebrzitshme, ai zhvillon mendimin kritik t\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve, parashtron pyetje n\u00eb grupe, individuale dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb \u201cmjesht\u00ebrore\u201d di ta organizoj\u00eb or\u00ebn m\u00ebsimore.<\/p>\n

Thjesht\u00ebsia e modestia q\u00eb zot\u00ebron m\u00ebsuesi efektiv e b\u00ebn t\u00eb mundur q\u00eb edhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit t\u00eb ndihen m\u00eb t\u00eb lirsh\u00ebm n\u00eb shprehjen e opinioneve, ideve, q\u00ebndrimeve t\u00eb tyre pavar\u00ebsisht edhe n\u00ebse t\u00eb pav\u00ebrteta qofshin. M\u00ebsuesi efektiv duhet ta zhvilloj\u00eb or\u00ebn m\u00ebsimore q\u00eb nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit ta shohin si relaks, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi mir\u00ebpo n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn koh\u00eb edhe t\u00eb \u201cushqehen\u201d me dije e njohuri n\u00eb nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb temash, dukurish, ngjarjesh e konceptesh. M\u00ebsuesi efektiv shk\u00ebmben ide, mendime t\u00eb nd\u00ebrsjella. Mir\u00ebpo, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb, idet\u00eb n\u00eb mes nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit e m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit din\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb ndryshe. Dhe, kjo b\u00ebn q\u00eb te nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit t\u00eb rritet produktiviteti n\u00eb m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnie e m\u00ebsimnx\u00ebnie. Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit jan\u00eb m\u00eb kureshtar\u00eb dhe m\u00eb t\u00eb form\u00ebsuar n\u00eb paraqitjen e ideve t\u00eb tyre. M\u00ebsuesi efektiv nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201crobot\u201d i asaj q\u00eb shpjegohet mekanikisht e sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsisht. Ai mendon dhe shprehet logjiksh\u00ebm e plot kuptim\u00ebsi, gj\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebn q\u00eb edhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit ta thon\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e mendojn\u00eb dhe t\u00eb mendojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb e thon\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Dhembje kohe<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u00eb jet\u00eb shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra na ikin nga duart. Ca t\u00eb tjera n\u00eb pavet\u00ebdije na kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb kalimthi, duke mos i analizuar sa e si duhet. Mir\u00ebpo, ka edhe aso gj\u00ebra q\u00eb l\u00ebn\u00eb gjurm\u00eb t\u00eb pashlyeshme n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb. Jan\u00eb kujtime q\u00eb na zgjojn\u00eb k\u00ebrsh\u00ebri e entuziaz\u00ebm t\u00eb furish\u00ebm. Kujtime k\u00ebto q\u00eb na l\u00ebngojn\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrisht, e na shpien deri n\u00eb lot malli e nostalgjie. Anipse, her\u00eb pas here, na p\u00ebrmallojn\u00eb lotuesh\u00ebm, mendja dhe zemra kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb merret me ato kujtime. Ato disi ia shtojn\u00eb vullnetin jet\u00ebs, t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb t\u00eb fort\u00eb, unik dhe tejet t\u00eb p\u00ebrmallsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb hapat q\u00eb i ke nd\u00ebrruar. Ah, sikur t\u00eb kthehej njeriu edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn rinore, t\u00eb shtegtonte p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb ato koh\u00eb. Sa t\u00eb mbushin me jet\u00eb e frym\u00ebzim, sa t\u00eb japin guxim e shpres\u00eb, sa t\u00eb ngjallin energji e forc\u00eb besimi n\u00eb vetvete. T\u00eb duket sikur t\u00eb gjitha gj\u00ebrat jan\u00eb duke ecur n\u00eb favor t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n

Do t\u00eb kap\u00ebrceja dete, male, yje e qiej q\u00eb t\u00eb kthehesha edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb kur ia kisha filluar n\u00eb vegj\u00ebli. \u00c7do dit\u00eb lotoj lotuesh\u00ebm. M\u00eb kaplon nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb euforie a plagom\u00eb shpirti p\u00ebr ato koh\u00eb. Sa keq q\u00eb njeriu nuk gjen mjet as form\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb kthej\u00eb koh\u00ebn pas, p\u00ebrpos n\u00ebp\u00ebrmjet kujtimeve a p\u00ebrjetimeve. Sa keq q\u00eb jeta nuk na ka dhuruar mund\u00ebsin\u00eb e dyt\u00eb t\u2019i ndryshonim ca gj\u00ebra apo edhe t\u2019i nxjerrim nga ekzistenca si t\u00eb paqena. Sa keq q\u00eb mosha rinore dhe kujtimet e f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb ik\u00ebn aq turravrap, sikurse nj\u00eb gjethe e nj\u00eb peme kur bie n\u00eb tok\u00eb. Sa m\u00eb dhemb kur p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb fotoje a kujtimi kthehem n\u00eb retrospektiv\u00eb, dhe kujtoj koh\u00ebn kur me nxitim haja buk\u00ebn me marmelat\u00eb dhe merrnim topin t\u00eb loznim me shok\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Assesi nuk mund t\u00eb harroj kur lija fare buk\u00ebn e nxeht\u00eb bashk\u00eb me nj\u00eb cop\u00eb djath\u00eb bilur e nj\u00eb spec turshi t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb gati p\u00ebr mua. Sa \u00e7ilt\u00ebrisht buz\u00ebqeshnim, sa b\u00ebrtitje ngaz\u00ebllyese b\u00ebnim… N\u00eb fytyrat tona shihej nj\u00eb shpirt i past\u00ebr e pa djall\u00ebzi… A thua a do t\u00eb vij\u00eb nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur ne anipse t\u00eb rritur, t\u00eb shfaqim at\u00eb sinqeritet, vet\u00ebmohim a \u00e7ilt\u00ebrsi t\u00eb past\u00ebr t\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebris\u00eb?!<\/p>\n

Kur koha largon njer\u00ebzit e dashur<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sa e hidhur t\u00eb duket jeta kur s\u2019i ke pran\u00eb ata q\u00eb i do. Gjithmon\u00eb mosprania e tyre n\u00eb jet\u00eb, na b\u00ebn t\u00eb mendohemi se sa t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm kan\u00eb qen\u00eb ata p\u00ebr ne. Zbrazt\u00ebsia a boshll\u00ebku q\u00eb ata l\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb hallk\u00eb zinxhirore, e cila pasi k\u00ebputet nuk riparohet m\u00eb. Disi na rrok nj\u00eb m\u00ebrzi a sfilitje shpirti, kur n\u00eb vet\u00ebdije na kujtohen personat q\u00eb fizikisht nuk jan\u00eb me ne. Nga brendia na tundon nj\u00eb gjakim i thell\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror q\u00eb s\u00eb paku t\u2019i shohim edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb, sepse ik\u00ebn pa na th\u00ebn\u00eb lamtumir\u00eb! Sa keq q\u00eb njeriu nuk ia di edhe aq r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb personave q\u00eb dikur s\u00eb bashku me ne ishin n\u00eb jet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Sa keq, q\u00eb jeta pa na pyetur na largon personat e dashur, n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb vagullta e t\u00eb liga, kur ndoshta m\u00eb s\u00eb paku e prisnim. T\u00eb futesh thell\u00eb n\u00eb bot\u00ebn e mendimit, e t\u00eb analizosh \u00e7do dit\u00eb hapat e tu. Do t\u00eb shoh\u00ebsh q\u00eb ne, si njer\u00ebz, nuk jemi qenie statike por momentale. \u00c7do krijes\u00eb njer\u00ebzore n\u00eb bot\u00eb mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb buz\u00eb vdekjes dhe nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht \u00e7do krijes\u00eb njer\u00ebzore, nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb, do ta b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebrfundimisht gjumin e vdekjes. Ama, ajo q\u00eb k\u00ebrkohet nga ne \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb mos ia l\u00ebm\u00eb gj\u00ebrat rast\u00ebsis\u00eb a koh\u00ebs, sepse n\u00eb jet\u00eb nuk ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb dyt\u00eb. Koha nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb afat bankar me mund\u00ebsi kthimi.<\/p>\n

Shpesh mjafton edhe nj\u00eb \u00e7ast i vet\u00ebm q\u00eb t\u2019i jap\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi nj\u00eb kujtimi t\u00eb gjat\u00eb e t\u00eb paharruar. Ta \u00e7mojm\u00eb e ta shfryt\u00ebzojm\u00eb maksimalisht koh\u00ebn. Koha kalon aq shpejt kur af\u00ebr kemi njer\u00ebz t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb e t\u00eb dashur. Sa e trisht\u00eb na duket jeta, kur ata q\u00eb i kishim nuk rrug\u00ebtojn\u00eb m\u00eb me ne. Do ta kemi mallin t\u2019i k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb, ama nuk do t\u2019i gjejm\u00eb m\u00eb?! P\u00ebrmallsh\u00ebm t\u00eb kaplon nj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb e fort\u00eb t\u00eb kthehesh n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend q\u00eb s\u2019e ke harruar m\u00eb par\u00eb, ta takosh nj\u00eb person q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb larguar nga kjo jet\u00eb… e t\u00eb rijetosh me t\u00eb si dikur…<\/p>\n

Nj\u00eb det kujtimesh<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ti e kupton, e dashur, se dremitjet e shpirtit nuk m\u00eb l\u00ebnkan t\u00eb qet\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb hon dhimbjesh? Ti e kupton, e dashur, se zjarr\u00ebngroht\u00ebsia e dashuris\u00eb, dep\u00ebrtuaka gjer n\u00eb palc\u00eb? Dashuria \u201cvret\u201d qenien e dashur, aty ku dhemb m\u00eb s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi. Dashuria i ka rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e thella n\u00eb kujtes\u00eb, sikurse nj\u00eb lis qindravje\u00e7ar dhe v\u00ebshtir\u00eb se do t\u00eb shkulen. Mos e merr dashurin\u00eb si di\u00e7ka t\u00eb ikur, ajo \u00e7do dit\u00eb po rritet, se i ka thelluar rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt. Ti po luan me t\u00eb, ama, do ta kuptosh se gj\u00ebrat e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme kuptohen m\u00eb von\u00eb. Mos u \u201czg\u00ebrdhi\u201d n\u00eb dashuri e dashur! Mos t\u00eb lutem… mos… \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb m\u00eb prek m\u00eb s\u00eb tep\u00ebrmi.<\/p>\n

Un\u00eb tashm\u00eb e kam nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb \u201cmur\u201d t\u00eb fort\u00eb dashurie… T\u00eb lus, t\u00eb mos e shkat\u00ebrrosh! \u00cbsht\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar me p\u00ebrp\u00eblitje trupi a shpirti deri k\u00ebtu… Ekrani i vet\u00ebdijes \u00ebsht\u00eb st\u00ebrmbushur me val\u00eb, q\u00eb dita-dit\u00ebs po shnd\u00ebrrohen n\u00eb det kujtimesh. Mos e dashur… koha mund t\u00eb t\u00eb fsheh\u00eb gj\u00ebra, ama un\u00eb jo ty, qenien t\u00ebnde. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, edhe mund t\u00eb largohem nga ti, ama, asnj\u00eb moment t\u00eb p\u00ebshtyj n\u00eb dashurin\u00eb t\u00ebnde… \u00cbsht\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb mbetet si di\u00e7ka e shenjt\u00eb p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n

Heshtje e pazbuluar<\/strong><\/p>\n

Shpesh jeta t\u00eb sfidon n\u00eb qindra a mij\u00ebra m\u00ebnyra. P\u00ebrp\u00eblitesh se ajo, t\u00eb lodh\u00eb, t\u00eb mundon… T\u00eb st\u00ebrmundon… Madje, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb duket gjith\u00e7ka pa kuptim, \u00e7\u2019sheh, \u00e7\u2019ndjen. T\u00eb duket edhe vetja e tep\u00ebrt. N\u00eb ato raste thua me vete ,, Askush nuk do t\u00eb m\u00eb kuptoj mua…\u201d dhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve nuk u gjen mjet t\u2019ua shpjegosh \u00e7\u2019ndjen ti? Fjala \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb vrull i brendsh\u00ebm q\u00eb ne e nxjerrim jasht\u00eb e t\u00eb largojm\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb na mundon… Ama, ka raste kur edhe fjala humb pesh\u00ebn e vet, b\u00ebhet heshtje e pazbuluar. E kur heshtja nuk arrin t\u00eb zbulohet nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ajo rritet, tundon thell\u00eb qenien, dhe duket sikurse ndonj\u00eb ushqim q\u00eb nuk e rip\u00ebrtypim si duhet e na zihet n\u00eb fyt. Sa gjakim shpirt\u00ebror \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebr qenien kur fjal\u00ebt kan\u00eb humbur ekuilibrin e drejtpeshimit, kur heshtja na \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb misteri yn\u00eb i pazbuluar nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt.<\/p>\n

Porosia e babait<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kur kthehem pas, n\u00eb hapat e paduksh\u00ebm t\u00eb kujtimeve, m\u00eb kujtohet dita e par\u00eb kur erdhe n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb. Si f\u00ebmij\u00eb i njom\u00eb q\u00eb ishe, dal\u00ebngadal\u00eb duke u rritur fillove t\u2019i b\u00ebsh hapat e par\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00ebs. Vog\u00eblushi im, qaje me d\u00ebnes\u00eb p\u00ebr gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb s\u2019i dije, q\u00eb s\u2019i njihje… Kur nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb i lagjes kishte nj\u00eb lod\u00ebr a di\u00e7ka t\u00eb bukur, b\u00ebrtitje me lemeri q\u00eb un\u00eb t\u00eb ta blija. Edhe pse t\u00eb varf\u00ebr, e pa gj\u00ebra elementare, nuk donim asnj\u00ebher\u00eb q\u00eb ty t\u00eb m\u00ebrzisnim. K\u00ebrkoje gj\u00ebra t\u00eb shtrenjta t\u00eb t\u2019i blija. M\u00eb duhej t\u00eb ecja or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra duke psonisur n\u00eb treg lodra e gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera q\u00eb ti i k\u00ebrkoje me ngulm. Vog\u00eblushi im, kam shkelur n\u00ebp\u00ebr koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira me plot vuajtje e mjerim. Jam p\u00ebrpir\u00eb ndaj nj\u00eb mij\u00eb e nj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebqijave, madje, edhe pa dark\u00eb duke fjetur, q\u00eb ty t\u2019i plot\u00ebsoja t\u00eb gjitha. Vog\u00eblushi im i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm, paska dashuri n\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb kap\u00ebrcejn\u00eb fusha, male, kodra, lumenj.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebso dashurie q\u00eb prekin qiellin, yjet, planetet, universin. E till\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb edhe dashuria ndaj teje vog\u00eblush. N\u00eb bot\u00eb nuk mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb dashuri m\u00eb t\u00eb past\u00ebr e t\u00eb \u00e7ilt\u00ebr, sikurse dashuria e prindit p\u00ebr t\u00eb birin. Birim im i shtrenjt\u00eb, pavar\u00ebsisht se tani je rritur dhe je i v\u00ebmendsh\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjitha n\u00eb jet\u00eb, p\u00ebr mua, je po ai vog\u00eblushi q\u00eb ardhja jote n\u00eb jet\u00eb solli pranver\u00eb e gjall\u00ebri n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb ton\u00eb. Biri im, kam p\u00ebrjetuar gj\u00ebra nga m\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshmet, shpesh me fatin kam z\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb thua. Kemi jetuar n\u00eb koh\u00ebra t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, ku p\u00ebr nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb d\u00ebnoheshe me vdekje. Shpesh jam shtrydhur n\u00eb mendime q\u00eb situatave t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u2019u dal mban\u00eb, ku kam punuar me or\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00ebra t\u2019u rris ty dhe familjen. Jeta e st\u00ebrmunduar m\u00eb ka katandisur shum\u00eb, mir\u00ebpo m\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar q\u00eb nga jeta t\u00eb mos largohem i koritur. Biri im i p\u00ebrjetsh\u00ebm, tani un\u00eb jam plakur dhe e ardhmja t\u00eb takon ty dhe pasardh\u00ebsve tu.<\/p>\n

Jeta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm diell e kalt\u00ebrsi, shpesh hasim dit\u00eb me vran\u00ebsira shi, bor\u00eb, bresh\u00ebr e mjegullnaj\u00eb. K\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb edhe njer\u00ebzit jo t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb duan me q\u00ebllime t\u00eb pastra, prapa dashuri\u00e7kave t\u00eb tyre fshihen inati, smira e xhelozia. Por, asnj\u00ebher\u00eb gjykimet dhe opinionet e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve nuk duhen t\u00eb b\u00ebhen realiteti yt. Jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde askush m\u00eb mir\u00eb se ti nuk mund ta jetoj\u00eb! Ti ji vetvetja! Ke besim n\u00eb hapat e tu, mos t\u00eb gjunj\u00ebzoj\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb q\u00eb ta pret\u00eb rrug\u00ebn. Biri im i shtrenjt\u00eb, t\u00eb dish ta shfryt\u00ebzosh koh\u00ebn dhe ta menaxhosh at\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb primati m\u00eb i \u00e7muar n\u00eb jet\u00eb. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos ia ler\u00eb gj\u00ebrat koh\u00ebs apo rast\u00ebsis\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Suksesin nuk e sjell dembelizmi, rehatll\u00ebku dhe rast\u00ebsia, por at\u00eb e sjell puna e palodhshme, vullneti dhe p\u00ebrpjekjet e vazhdueshme. Askush nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb i arrir\u00eb brenda nate, dhe askush nuk e ka gjetur suksesin n\u00eb raftet e dyqaneve. Biri im, ta duash dhe ta \u00e7mosh tjetrin, n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e suksesit, edhe vet\u00eb je i ndihmuar. Ndihmoji t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, ji shembull p\u00ebr t\u00eb mir\u00eb, se secila dor\u00eb ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr tjetr\u00ebn. Duhet t\u00eb dish se jo t\u00eb gjitha buz\u00ebqeshjet jan\u00eb t\u00eb sinqerta, por ka nga ato q\u00eb fshihen nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb helmesh e demaskimesh prapa shpine. Me gj\u00ebrat duhet sprovuar: \u201cNj\u00eb krip\u00eb me mas\u00eb i jep shije gjell\u00ebs, kur rritet n\u00eb sasi t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb helmuar\u201d. Biri im, do ta shikosh veten \u00e7do dit\u00eb n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb e asnj\u00ebra nuk do t\u00eb ngjaj\u00eb me t\u00ebnden! Askujt mos i beso m\u00eb tep\u00ebr se syve tu \u00e7\u2019sheh e \u00e7\u2019ndjen!<\/p>\n

Mos harro, sot realiteti shtremb\u00ebrohet n\u00eb mij\u00ebra m\u00ebnyra. Gjithmon\u00eb pas di\u00e7kaje fshehet di\u00e7ka edhe m\u00eb e thell\u00eb q\u00eb ti nuk e sheh?! Hiqu thashethemeve e p\u00ebrgojimeve pash\u00eb nderin! Ato jan\u00eb p\u00ebr njer\u00ebzit e ligj e pa q\u00ebllim. Do t\u00eb d\u00ebrgojn\u00eb n\u00eb mosarritje e buz\u00eb gremin\u00ebs. Do t\u00eb ket\u00eb njer\u00ebz q\u00eb do t\u00eb ledhatojn\u00eb, e, pas shpine do t\u00eb p\u00ebshtyjn\u00eb gjak e vrer p\u00ebr ty. Por, kjo nuk duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoj\u00eb se ata do t\u00eb mbesin ashtu t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar. Biri im, e di se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh me problemet dhe peripecit\u00eb q\u00eb i sjell jeta, ama asnj\u00ebher\u00eb le t\u00eb mos pengoj\u00eb e kaluara dhe problemet q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndodhur, le t\u00eb mbyllen nj\u00eb her\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb me nj\u00eb dry t\u00eb fort\u00eb harrese! Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb mos u b\u00ebj kopje apo imitim i di\u00e7kaje, ngase secili duhet ndjekur unin e tij. Mos u ngop s\u00eb punuari! Mos u k\u00ebnaq me at\u00eb q\u00eb e ke! Gjithmon\u00eb ka vend p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Biri im, JETOJE JET\u00cbN ME NDER!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Vog\u00eblushi im<\/em><\/p>\n

Vog\u00eblushi im, ti engj\u00ebll i d\u00eblir\u00eb, ke ardhur n\u00eb jet\u00eb i past\u00ebr pa demaskime dhe asnj\u00ebher\u00eb i qullosur. Me koh\u00ebn dhe ravij\u00ebzimin e viteve gj\u00ebrat ishin ndryshe, jo ashtu qysh ti i mendoje. Vog\u00eblushi im, je krijuar nga dashuria, ke dhuruar tek t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dashuri. Dhe, nj\u00ebmend ke menduar q\u00eb vet\u00ebm dashuria krijon gj\u00ebrat e mira. Po, vog\u00eblushi im, ashtu edhe \u00ebsht\u00eb, ama, mos harro nj\u00eb gj\u00eb: \u201cJeta m\u00eb s\u00eb shumti i p\u00ebrbaltos t\u00eb mir\u00ebt. Kjo bot\u00eb baltake dhe e pashpirt do t\u00eb mundohet t\u00eb t\u00eb hedh\u00eb nga binar\u00ebt e tu t\u00eb mir\u00ebsis\u00eb. E di, q\u00eb nuk je m\u00ebsuar e as nuk e ke menduar se k\u00ebshtu do t\u00eb jet\u00eb, edhe at\u00ebher\u00eb kur mundohesh dikujt as miz\u00ebn nga trupi t\u00eb mos ia heq\u00ebsh. Do t\u00eb ofendojn\u00eb n\u00eb mij\u00ebra m\u00ebnyra: dashakeq\u00ebsit, urrejtjeg\u00ebrryesit e smir\u00ebzinjt\u00eb. Vog\u00eblushi im, padyshim e di, q\u00eb kjo p\u00ebr ty \u00ebsht\u00eb si t\u00eb t\u00eb rrokullisej nj\u00eb bjeshk\u00eb e t\u00ebr\u00eb. Por, ti prap\u00eb je ndryshe n\u00eb qenien t\u00ebnde t\u00eb padjall\u00ebzuar t\u00eb mundon nj\u00eb gjakim i thell\u00eb shpirt\u00ebror, zihesh nd\u00ebr vete e skuqesh nga turpi.<\/p>\n

Fytyra jote e sinqert\u00eb vog\u00eblush, flet m\u00eb shum\u00eb se fjal\u00ebt q\u00eb i thua ti. N\u00eb syt\u00eb tu jet\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebs shoh\u00eb nj\u00eb plagom\u00eb t\u00eb thell\u00eb e t\u00eb fsheht\u00eb. E di, q\u00eb me fjal\u00eb nuk shprehesh edhe aq se gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk thuhen i kupton m\u00eb s\u00eb miri heshtja. Vog\u00eblushi im, i ke par\u00eb gj\u00ebrat q\u00eb nuk p\u00ebrkojn\u00eb me nj\u00ebra-tjetr\u00ebn, i ke par\u00eb sa disbalance sa urrejtje, sa inate kemi n\u00eb shoq\u00ebri?! Qysh e n\u00ebn\u00e7mojm\u00eb tjetrin, sa p\u00ebrgojime e thashetheme me konotacione negative b\u00ebjm\u00eb. E kemi hal\u00eb n\u00eb sy njeriun q\u00eb sadopak arrin dhe b\u00ebhet i suksessh\u00ebm. Vog\u00eblushi im, i p\u00ebrkor\u00eb, n\u00eb jet\u00eb secili vim\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka, e, secili nga ne duhet ta ket\u00eb nga nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim. Kur them q\u00ebllim, jo q\u00ebllime t\u00eb atyre njer\u00ebzve meskin\u00eb e synimeve t\u00eb tyre mediokre, por vizion i qart\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb arrir\u00eb n\u00eb piedestalin m\u00eb t\u00eb lart\u00eb t\u00eb suksesit e arritshm\u00ebris\u00eb. Mos bjer pre e p\u00ebrgojimeve a vibracioneve t\u00eb ul\u00ebta t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve q\u00ebllimk\u00ebqij, mizantrop\u00eb e t\u00eb shushatur.<\/p>\n

Ka t\u00eb atill\u00eb q\u00eb g\u00eblojn\u00eb si gjethet t\u00eb t\u00eb devijojn\u00eb ty nga trajektorja e suksesit dhe mundohen me \u00e7do kusht ta zvet\u00ebnojn\u00eb q\u00ebllimin t\u00ebnd. Por, natyra jote, vog\u00eblush, thot\u00eb krejt di\u00e7ka tjet\u00ebr. Pasioni dhe vullneti yt p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn, ka mbir\u00eb thell\u00eb n\u00eb qenien t\u00ebnde dhe si vullkan shp\u00ebrthen \u00e7do lig\u00ebsi dhe tejkalon \u00e7do barrier\u00eb q\u00eb mund t\u00eb pengoj\u00eb udh\u00ebtimin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb shenjt\u00eb. Vog\u00eblushi im, i shtrenjt\u00eb, n\u00eb jet\u00eb je krijuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb arritur. Duaji me pasion e shpirt gj\u00ebrat me vler\u00eb! Puno \u00e7do dit\u00eb dhe ndihmoju edhe t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e suksesit t\u00eb tyre! Luftoji padrejt\u00ebsit\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebhen! Mos hiq dor\u00eb asnj\u00ebher\u00eb nga ajo q\u00eb p\u00ebr ty ka vler\u00eb dhe zgjon k\u00ebrsh\u00ebri! T\u00eb kam th\u00ebn\u00eb: N\u00eb jet\u00eb vim\u00eb p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka e secili duhet ta kemi nga nj\u00eb q\u00ebllim, ngase vet\u00ebm q\u00ebllimi i b\u00ebn njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb dalluesh\u00ebm dhe t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb. Pa t\u00eb, m\u00eb beso…edhe bota do t\u00eb kishte humbur kuptimin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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