{"id":49340,"date":"2019-12-28T23:17:49","date_gmt":"2019-12-28T22:17:49","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fjala.info\/?p=49340"},"modified":"2019-12-28T23:17:57","modified_gmt":"2019-12-28T22:17:57","slug":"o-shqiptar-sdo-mend-se-dicka-nuk-eshte-ne-rregull-me-ty","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jehonashqiptare.al\/fjala\/o-shqiptar-sdo-mend-se-dicka-nuk-eshte-ne-rregull-me-ty\/","title":{"rendered":"O shqiptar, s&#8217;do mend se di\u00e7ka nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb rregull me ty!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nga <strong>Aurel Dasareti<\/strong>, <em>USA<\/em>, <em>ekspert i shkencave ushtarake-psikologjike<\/em> (<a href=\"mailto:dasaretiaurel@yahoo.com.au\">dasaretiaurel@yahoo.com.au<\/a>)<\/p>\n<p>Tragjedia n\u00eb bot\u00ebn shqiptare nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shtypja dhe mizoria e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb k\u00ebqij, por heshtja e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Indiferent\u00eb. Indiferenc\u00eb q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb forcuar shum\u00eb edhe p\u00ebr shkakun se midis nesh ka edhe kalemxhinj-shakaxhinj q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga \u00e7rregullimet e personalitetit, prandaj me shkarravinat e tyre t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme n\u00ebp\u00ebr portale, ua kan\u00eb prish mendjen lexuesve t\u00eb pafajsh\u00ebm, duke i hutuar dhe shastisur me llafe t\u00eb kota q\u00eb vendin e kan\u00eb n\u00eb qendrat psikiatrike. Prandaj indiferent\u00ebt nuk din\u00eb sakt\u00ebsisht kush jan\u00eb autor\u00ebt e letrave t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillta, prej t\u00eb cilave do t`u orientoheshin p\u00ebr veprime t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme, duke ua shkulur vesh\u00ebt hajdut\u00ebve dhe tradhtar\u00ebve q\u00eb jan\u00eb duke i shitur haptas trojet ilire-shqiptare.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Komentuesit e mir\u00ebfillt\u00eb jan\u00eb njer\u00ebz me mendim t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb, me mendje kritike dhe me gjuh\u00eb t\u00eb mpreht\u00eb, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt, duke par\u00eb situat\u00ebn nga nj\u00eb k\u00ebndv\u00ebshtrim pa konflikt interesi, i afrohen publikut me ato q\u00eb shohin.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p>Burra t\u00eb \u00e7mendur n\u00eb mediume. Psikopati \u00ebsht\u00eb imitues. Kur lexoni p\u00ebr psikopat\u00ebt, shpesh thuhet se atyre u mungojn\u00eb emocionet, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb kur ai shpreh emocione nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb real, por imitim. P\u00ebrkat\u00ebsisht, psikopati ka m\u00ebsuar duke v\u00ebzhguar njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ndryshe nga njer\u00ebzit normal\u00eb q\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta. Ne njer\u00ebzit normal\u00eb nuk imitojm\u00eb kur shprehim ndjenjat, kur shprehim nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb, at\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. Ne jemi n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb tregojm\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta sepse kemi ndjenja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, por psikopat\u00ebt nuk kan\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb v\u00ebrteta, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb ato imitojn\u00eb. Ajo q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e frikshme p\u00ebr psikopat\u00ebt \u00ebsht\u00eb se ata jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb imitojn\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb shum\u00eb bind\u00ebse. Ata kan\u00eb v\u00ebzhguar njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb p\u00ebr aq koh\u00eb sa q\u00eb jan\u00eb n\u00eb gjendje t\u00eb imitojn\u00eb \u00e7far\u00ebdo, dhe kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e frikshme p\u00ebr sh\u00ebndetin e t\u00eb s\u00ebmurit.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">* * *<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rreth personalitetit t\u00eb kalemxhinjve q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga narcizmi<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>\u00c7rregullimi i personalitetit q\u00eb vuan nga narcizmi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb q\u00eb ka t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta t\u00eb caktuara me psikopatin\u00eb.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Disa besojn\u00eb se ky \u00e7rregullim i personalitetit ndodh si rezultat i p\u00ebrvojave t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira n\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebrin\u00eb e hershme, por sakt\u00ebsisht si ndodh kjo ka disa teori t\u00eb ndryshme rreth k\u00ebsaj. Nj\u00eb person me \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb personalitetit narcist duket &#8220;i vet\u00eb-zhytur&#8221;, por \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrshkrim sip\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsor dhe tep\u00ebr i thjesht\u00eb. N\u00eb fakt, personit i mungon nj\u00eb perceptim i qart\u00eb i &#8220;Vet\u00eb&#8221; t\u00eb tij. Si nj\u00eb p\u00ebrpjekje e d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar p\u00ebr t\u00eb kompensuar k\u00ebt\u00eb, personi p\u00ebrpiqet n\u00eb \u00e7do koh\u00eb dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb sjell\u00eb ambientin p\u00ebr t\u00eb konfirmuar ekzistenc\u00ebn e &#8220;Vet\u00eb&#8221; t\u00eb personit, pasi m\u00ebnyra e vetme q\u00eb personi mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndonj\u00eb t\u00eb dh\u00ebn\u00eb p\u00ebr ekzistenc\u00ebn aktuale personale \u00ebsht\u00eb p\u00ebrmes mesazheve nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt. Konfirmimi dhe reagimi nga rrethina \u00ebsht\u00eb natyrisht i r\u00ebnd\u00ebsish\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit, por p\u00ebr nj\u00eb person me \u00e7rregullim t\u00eb personalitetit prej narcizmi, nevoja \u00ebsht\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimi i eg\u00ebr, i pashpres\u00eb, pasi personi do t\u00eb pushonte s\u00eb ekzistuari n\u00ebse t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt nuk do ta kthenin v\u00ebmendjen e tyre ndaj t\u00eb till\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Sidoqoft\u00eb, nj\u00eb personi me at\u00eb \u00e7rregullim, n\u00eb nj\u00eb kuptim i mungon mund\u00ebsia t\u00eb njoh\u00eb personat e tjer\u00eb si qenie t\u00eb pavarura. K\u00ebshtu, ata nuk p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb asnj\u00eb ngusht\u00ebsi personale p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar respekt ndaj t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve, dhe nuk kan\u00eb mund\u00ebsin\u00eb normale t\u00eb ndiejn\u00eb ndjeshm\u00ebri dhe sjellja egocentrike b\u00ebhet e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr t\u00eb p\u00ebrmbushur nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr vet\u00eb-afirmim. Sjelljet q\u00eb mund t\u00eb duken t\u00eb respektueshme dhe\/ose empatike, motivohen nga q\u00ebllimet e udh\u00ebhequra nga nevoja t\u00eb vet\u00ebdijshme\/t\u00eb pavet\u00ebdijshme p\u00ebr vet\u00eb-afirmim. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb, sjellja me sa duket e respektueshme dhe empatike e nj\u00eb personi me k\u00ebt\u00eb \u00e7rregullim \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb instrument i p\u00ebrdorur n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb aktive n\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj mashtrimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb manipuluar mjedisin. Meqen\u00ebse nj\u00eb personi me k\u00ebt\u00eb diagnoz\u00eb i mungon nj\u00eb perceptim i qart\u00eb i vetvetes, personi ka v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi t\u00eb ket\u00eb ndonj\u00eb kuptim ose mendim p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtp\u00ebrdrejt e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr agjend\u00ebn e vet\u00eb personit.<\/p>\n<p>Prandaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb e nevojshme t\u00eb kopjojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit normal\u00eb sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb e mundur kur b\u00ebhet fjal\u00eb p\u00ebr shfaqjen e cil\u00ebsive personale. Vlerat, mendimet, shijet, m\u00ebnyrat e t\u00eb folurit etj., merren (kopjohen) nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt, dhe personi i s\u00ebmur\u00eb n\u00eb vijim kryen at\u00eb q\u00eb supozohet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsoj\u00eb shenja t\u00eb cil\u00ebsive t\u00eb mir\u00ebfillta, personale. Ata kopjojn\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb ata e perceptojn\u00eb si t\u00eb pranuesh\u00ebm dhe me cil\u00ebsi t\u00eb lart\u00eb, sepse kjo mbulon nevoj\u00ebn e tyre madh\u00ebshtore p\u00ebr konfirmim. Nga kjo rrjedh koncepti i &#8220;vetvetes&#8221; s\u00eb rreme, q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fasada me t\u00eb cil\u00ebn rrethohen. Kritika zbulon se kjo fasad\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb e cenueshme dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye vler\u00ebsohet si e till\u00eb si shkelje serioze. Shpesh, fjalimet (shkrimet) mund t\u00eb ting\u00ebllojn\u00eb si &#8220;kopje &amp; ngjitur&#8221; dhe duken t\u00eb panatyrshme, dhe mbase absurde n\u00eb kontekst &#8220;Shfaqja- prezantimi&#8221; mund t\u00eb duket konfuze (hutim) p\u00ebr &#8220;publikun&#8221;, k\u00ebshtu q\u00eb p\u00ebrshtypja p\u00ebrkeq\u00ebsohet edhe m\u00eb tej nga fakti se i s\u00ebmuri padyshim nuk v\u00ebren munges\u00eb konsistence n\u00eb deklarata.<\/p>\n<p>Padyshim se ai (ajo) q\u00eb l\u00ebngon nga \u00e7rregullimi i personalitetit, nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrzihet fare n\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk i di fare.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nga Aurel Dasareti, USA, ekspert i shkencave ushtarake-psikologjike (dasaretiaurel@yahoo.com.au) Tragjedia n\u00eb bot\u00ebn shqiptare nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb shtypja dhe mizoria e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb k\u00ebqij, por heshtja e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb mir\u00eb. Indiferent\u00eb. 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