{"id":65053,"date":"2021-03-01T07:21:13","date_gmt":"2021-03-01T06:21:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/fjala.info\/?p=65053"},"modified":"2021-03-01T07:21:13","modified_gmt":"2021-03-01T06:21:13","slug":"sklleverit-me-te-lumtur-jane-armiqte-me-te-hidhur-te-lirise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jehonashqiptare.al\/fjala\/sklleverit-me-te-lumtur-jane-armiqte-me-te-hidhur-te-lirise\/","title":{"rendered":"Skllev\u00ebrit m\u00eb t\u00eb lumtur jan\u00eb armiqt\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb hidhur t\u00eb liris\u00eb"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nga Aurel Dasareti<\/strong>, USA<\/em>, ekspert i shkencave ushtarake-psikologjike<\/em> (dasaretiaurel@yahoo.com.au<\/a>)<\/p>\n

Heronjt\u00eb q\u00eb vdiq\u00ebn duke mbrojtur \u00ebndrrat e miliona bashkatdhetar\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre do t\u00eb jen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb ylli yn\u00eb udh\u00ebzues.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Njeriu \u00ebsht\u00eb produkt i atyre q\u00eb kan\u00eb ushtruar ndikim mbi t\u00eb. Prind\u00ebrit e mi, secili m\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn e vet, kan\u00eb ushtruar nj\u00eb ndikim t\u00eb thell\u00eb mbi mua dhe idet\u00eb e mia. Ata jan\u00eb dhe mbeten t\u00eb shtrenjt\u00eb p\u00ebr mua, prandaj qysh n\u00eb vog\u00ebli secilit prej tyre i thosha: \u201cT\u00eb dua deri p\u00ebrtej yjeve<\/strong>\u201d. Nga ata kam m\u00ebsuar si t\u00eb trajtoj bot\u00ebn dhe si t`i b\u00ebj\u00eb analiz\u00eb vetes. Dhe, kuptohet, t\u00eb interesohem me shpirt p\u00ebr rr\u00ebnj\u00ebt e mia t\u00eb prejardhjes dhe fatin e t\u00eb tjer\u00ebve.<\/p>\n

Prind\u00ebrit e mi kan\u00eb nj\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie shum\u00eb t\u00eb ve\u00e7ant\u00eb me Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb edhe pse jan\u00eb lindur n\u00eb Amerik\u00eb e Australi. Lidhja e fort\u00eb, dashuria q\u00eb kan\u00eb mamaja<\/strong> dhe babai<\/strong> p\u00ebr Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb<\/strong> (gjith\u00eb trojet) u jan\u00eb transferuar f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre: mua, v\u00ebllait dhe motr\u00ebs. Ata na m\u00ebsuan ta duam atdheun e gjysh\u00ebrve tan\u00eb. \u201cDuaje Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb me gjith\u00eb zemr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde<\/strong>\u201d, na thon\u00eb vazhdimisht.<\/p>\n

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Jam i mahnitur me bukurin\u00eb e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Me pem\u00ebn e lulen dhe p\u00ebrruan e lumin, me bregdetin, ujin e kalt\u00ebr kristal t\u00eb plazheve dhe pamjet e maleve, me horizontet. Kam p\u00ebrjetuar bukurin\u00eb q\u00eb k\u00ebndon brenda meje, kam arritur nj\u00eb lidhje me krijuesin dhe nj\u00eb jet\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb gjunj\u00ebzoi p\u00ebr respekt, \u00e7udi dhe mir\u00ebnjohje q\u00eb gjenetikisht jam shqiptar. Vendi im (dhe i juaji) \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb nga vendet m\u00eb t\u00eb mira n\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb jetuar. \u00cbsht\u00eb pothuajse perfekt. Por jo krejt. Duhet pastruar nga b\u00ebrllok.<\/p>\n

Po tani, \u00e7ka do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb me ty Shqip\u00ebri me trupin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb amputuar? N\u00eb cil\u00ebn bot\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7mendur t\u00eb kan\u00eb shtyr\u00eb t\u00eb degjeneruarit, hajnat, tradhtar\u00ebt dhe gazetar\u00ebt, prift\u00ebrinjt\u00eb e hoxhallar\u00ebt, dobi\u00e7\u00ebt kriminel\u00ebt dhe budallenjt\u00eb? A ka mbaruar koha e mosrespektimit p\u00ebr shtetin, dhe posht\u00ebruesit e tij t\u00eb pabes\u00eb e hipokrit\u00eb?<\/p>\n

Gjysma e popullsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb rinia. Gjysma e popullsis\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e papun\u00eb. Dhe gjysma e popullsis\u00eb jeton n\u00ebn kufirin e varf\u00ebris\u00eb. Gjysma e popullsis\u00eb kan\u00eb braktisur vendin. Emigracioni i paligjsh\u00ebm nga i gjith\u00eb rruzulli tok\u00ebsor z\u00eb vendin e tyre dhe s\u00eb shpejti do ta ndryshoje t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht demografin\u00eb ashtu q\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt do t\u00eb b\u00ebhen minoritet n\u00eb vendin e vet, nd\u00ebrkaq nataliteti shkon duke u zvog\u00ebluar. Do t\u00eb shuhemi si komb e vend n\u00ebse nuk do t\u00eb b\u00ebjm\u00eb ndryshime t\u00eb menj\u00ebhershme. Jeta nuk ka telekomand\u00eb, duhet t\u00eb ngrihesh dhe ta ndryshosh vet\u00eb! Asgj\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme nuk ndodh para se t\u00eb prishet nj\u00eb model. Kush d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb realizoj\u00eb \u00ebndrrat e tij duhet s\u00eb pari t\u00eb zgjohet prej tyre.<\/p>\n

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Liria \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sesa nj\u00eb loj\u00eb futbolli. Dinjiteti dhe t\u00eb drejtat e njeriut jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme sesa Kupa e Bot\u00ebs. Ne duhet t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn ton\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb arsyeja pse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb duhet t\u00eb bashkohemi dhe t\u00eb luftojm\u00eb p\u00ebr vendin. Shqip\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb plot me probleme, dhe q\u00ebllimi yn\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb t’i b\u00ebjm\u00eb ato m\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdha. Problemi kryesor \u00ebsht\u00eb se qeveria dhe kryeministri q\u00eb e ka kapur shtetin, nuk d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e tyre.<\/p>\n

Praktika e tyre \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb “Kryeministri jep urdhra dhe t\u00eb gjith\u00eb tjer\u00ebt duhet t`u binden<\/strong>“. Ata q\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtojn\u00eb, arrestohen, rrihen dhe posht\u00ebrohen, p\u00ebrve\u00e7 n\u00ebse z\u00ebri i tyre nuk ka asnj\u00eb forc\u00eb ndikimi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb. At\u00ebher\u00eb ata mund t\u00eb vijn\u00eb me sa m\u00eb shum\u00eb kund\u00ebrshtime si\u00e7 d\u00ebshirojn\u00eb. K\u00ebto jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat metoda si\u00e7 b\u00ebnte dikur ai diktatori i ndjer\u00eb. T\u00eb ligt\u00eb nuk presin q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit ta marrin \u00e7\u00ebshtjen n\u00eb duart e tyre, ose numri i qytetar\u00ebve q\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn e tyre t\u00eb rritet. Por n\u00ebse ne b\u00ebhemi aktiv, n\u00eb fund t\u00eb fundit ai patjet\u00ebr t\u00eb ik si nj\u00eb kriminel i zakonsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

Problemi yn\u00eb m\u00eb i madh n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri \u00ebsht\u00eb, p\u00ebr ironi, q\u00eb ne i shohim vet\u00ebm problemet tona. Ne nuk e kuptojm\u00eb q\u00eb megjith\u00ebse problemet tona mund t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme, simptomat jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta dhe shkaqet jan\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjta. Ne kemi ndalur (p\u00ebrfunduar) dhembshurin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb varfrit. Sa prej nesh kan\u00eb menduar se si \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur t\u00eb mbijetosh nj\u00eb muaj t\u00eb plot\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb \u00e7ek prej 500 lek\u00ebsh? Ne e injorojm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet dhe e \u00e7regjistrojm\u00eb at\u00eb si t\u00eb par\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr veten ton\u00eb. \u00c7far\u00eb ndodh me nj\u00eb person t\u00eb till\u00eb? Ai ose ajo do t\u00eb vjedh\u00eb, do t\u00eb pranoj\u00eb ryshfet dhe do t\u00eb jet\u00eb i hapur p\u00ebr korrupsion.<\/p>\n

Ose do t\u00eb largohet nga vendi, braktis atdheun. Ky person mund t\u00eb ndikoj\u00eb tek ju drejtp\u00ebrdrejt sepse ai \u00ebsht\u00eb drejtuesi i nj\u00eb organi publik, ai i m\u00ebson f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tuaj, \u00ebsht\u00eb mjeku juaj etj. Dhe n\u00ebse ky person vendos t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb qytetar i ndersh\u00ebm q\u00eb nuk pranon ryshfet do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfundoj\u00eb me nj\u00eb standard jetese t\u00eb ul\u00ebt \u00e7njer\u00ebzore, do t\u00eb humbas\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha ndjenjat e p\u00ebrkat\u00ebsis\u00eb dhe atdhetaris\u00eb dhe do t’i transmetoj\u00eb k\u00ebto ndjenja te f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre. Dhe k\u00ebtu jan\u00eb ngritur th\u00ebniet e t\u00eb varf\u00ebrve: “Ky nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vendi yn\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb i tyre!<\/em>” – (“i tyre”, at\u00ebher\u00eb i referohet regjimit dhe njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb biznesit p\u00ebrreth tyre).<\/p>\n

Traditat dhe kultura jon\u00eb e lasht\u00eb pellazge\/ilire s\u00ebrish duhet t\u00eb na nxiti t\u00eb kujdesemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt p\u00ebrreth nesh. Problemet n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri jan\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb rrezikshme sesa problemet e nj\u00eb personi t\u00eb vet\u00ebm. Ne jemi t\u00eb gjith\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjt\u00ebn bark\u00eb, dhe n\u00ebse lejojm\u00eb q\u00eb dikush t\u00eb shpoj\u00eb vrima n\u00eb t\u00eb, e gjith\u00eb anija do t\u00eb fundoset p\u00ebrfundimisht dhe askush nga ne nuk do t\u00eb mbijetoj\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Qeveria ka koh\u00eb q\u00eb ka nj\u00eb tradit\u00eb t`u tregoj\u00eb g\u00ebnjeshtra njer\u00ebzve p\u00ebrmes mediave kukull t\u00eb kontrolluara nga kapsit e shtetit. Megjithat\u00eb, njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb marr\u00eb informacion t\u00eb mir\u00eb nga mediat e pakta t\u00eb pavarura dhe me t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb kan\u00eb filluar t\u00eb shohin dhe d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb p\u00ebr problemet e vendit n\u00eb nj\u00eb mas\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Reagimet e autoriteteve deri tani ishin gjithnj\u00eb ose t\u00eb dob\u00ebta ose qesharake. Njer\u00ebzit humb\u00ebn besimin n\u00eb qeveri dhe qeveria mendoi se p\u00ebr shkak se populli nuk thot\u00eb asgj\u00eb, ata jan\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur, ose se nuk ka asnj\u00eb problem para se njer\u00ebzit t\u00eb nd\u00ebrmarrin veprime. P\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebsit e ekipeve t\u00eb futbollit: N\u00ebse veni bast po aq sa b\u00ebni kur \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb loj\u00eb futbolli, mund ta ndihmoni Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb (Kosov\u00ebn, FYROM-in, t\u00eb gjitha trojet) p\u00ebr ndryshime pozitive. Ne t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jemi mb\u00ebshtet\u00ebs t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Prandaj, le t\u00eb takohemi p\u00ebr t\u00eb treguar mb\u00ebshtetjen ton\u00eb kur Atdheu Th\u00ebrret. P\u00ebrdorni shpirtin tuaj luftarak p\u00ebr m\u00eb t\u00eb mir\u00ebn e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Shqiptar\u00eb, mos e lini vendin. Mos u dor\u00ebzohuni. Shp\u00ebtojeni Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb (gjith\u00eb trojet) nga shitja dhe shkat\u00ebrrimi i sigurt.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Shqip\u00ebria ka miliona t\u00eb varf\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb papun\u00eb. N\u00ebse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bashkohen, askush nuk mund t\u00eb na ndaloj\u00eb. Dhe n\u00ebse p\u00ebrdorim strategjin\u00eb e duhur, gjithashtu edhe mbrojt\u00ebsit e rendit do t\u00eb jen\u00eb n\u00eb an\u00ebn ton\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Shqiptar\u00eb, tani kur gjendemi para shp\u00ebrb\u00ebrjes si Komb dhe Vend, nuk duhet t\u00eb humbim koh\u00eb duke faj\u00ebsuar nj\u00ebri-tjetrin se \u00e7far\u00eb gabimesh kemi b\u00ebr\u00eb, por si t\u00eb riktheheni n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e duhur.<\/p>\n

Dhe, kush ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se pik\u00ebrisht k\u00ebta insekte t\u00eb kalbura (servil\u00eb t\u00eb pushtuesve) q\u00eb sundojn\u00eb mbi shqiptar\u00ebt k\u00ebto 20-30 vitet e fundit, kan\u00eb ardhur n\u00eb bot\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb na dh\u00ebn\u00eb lumturi dhe drit\u00ebn e diellit n\u00eb udh\u00ebtim? Pse i hyjnizoni? Ata jan\u00eb sh\u00ebrb\u00ebtor\u00ebt e juaj. Ti nuk mund t\u00eb fillosh kapitullin tjet\u00ebr t\u00eb jet\u00ebs t\u00ebnde nd\u00ebrsa ende je duke lexuar at\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebparshmin.<\/p>\n

Miqt\u00eb e mir\u00eb jan\u00eb si dritat e shtyllave elektrike gjat\u00eb rrug\u00ebs s\u00eb err\u00ebt. Ato nuk e b\u00ebjn\u00eb distanc\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb shkurt\u00ebr, por e b\u00ebjn\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb ecjen.<\/em><\/p>\n